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  Over 40?

Impotence. Lack of desire. Inhibited performance. For older adults these are problems of epidemic proportions that seldom were discussed let alone treated. Then along came a little blue pill called Viagra and suddenly everyone—even former Presidential candidates—were abuzz.

Medical researchers and sex therapists have known it for years. More than half of all males become sexually impotent occasionally. 1 in 8 experience chronic impotence. Among women, loss of desire is a common complaint. So are symptoms of pain or discomfort during intercourse. These conditions are common and occur with increasing frequency with individuals aged 40 and over.

For many, the most crucial and difficult step to recovery is admitting there is a problem and becoming willing to seek outside assistance. What can be done? In addition to pharmacological solutions, various techniques and exercises can enhance a person’s ability to perform sexually well into middle-age and beyond. So can reducing stress and anxiety by obtaining a better understanding of the physical changes that can affect one’s sex life due to the natural aging process. At SECS Dr. Dauw deals with five specific problem areas:

  • Premature ejaculation
  • Primary impotence
  • Secondary impotence
  • Lack of desire
  • Inhibited ejaculation

If you are currently experiencing any of these conditions, you are urged to contact SECS to discuss your situation in confidence. Help is available. It is up to you to reach out and ask for it.


"Sex problems among adults aged 40 and over aren’t uncommon. They’re the norm. Fortunately, much can be done to alleviate even the most intractable problems—restoring both the desire and ability to perform sexually. What’s required is to have the courage to seek help and participate actively in finding answers."